This phenomenon, which arose after the Second Vatican Council, particularly regarding annulments, especially in the United States, has been taken superficially without due attention and care. It is not accurate to say "annulment" because a marriage cannot be declared annulled. It is better to speak of a "declaration of the invalidity" of the union, or the so-called "marriage." In other words, the declaration that this union, the so-called marriage or wedding, was invalid from the very beginning. It is better to use these terms. I repeat, before the Second Vatican Council, the norms were very strict, and the Church took marriage very seriously.
Now, with Pope Francis having issued even easier norms for obtaining a declaration of invalidity through a simplified process, there are dangers of granting validity to marriages that should have been declared invalid.
However, in such cases, we must follow the exterior norms of the Church, even if the Church officially declares a particular marriage invalid. You should not be scrupulous about this decision, as it is a determination of the Church, not yours. The Church is a hierarchical body governed by Canon Law, and when a decision is issued by the Church’s authorities, you can appeal it. But even if an appeal is made and the decision is upheld, confirming the marriage’s invalidity, you can then proceed with a clear conscience and continue your path.
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